Many mothers came and tell me that they don’t see their kids laughing and happy as they should be
Although parents do their best to make nice outing for their children and get them lovely toys, but they are not happy.
When I decided to quit my engineering job in one of the big multi company and many of my friends and relatives were telling me I am crazy ,especially after the dollar increase and the economic situation in Egypt
I was really seeing that this field of consultation for kids will increase
Because YES Kids are depressed and parents will need help and consultation to solve their kids issues as they won’t be able to do it alone in the tough environment we are living in (social pressure ,economic pressure,peer pressure and more)
Although we do tons of things for our children but they are still unhappy
How come?
Yes because we re doing tons of things for them ,we are missing to be with them
I mean be with them ‘sitting on the floor on the couch, talk ,play and laugh freely without thinking of what to do next
Leaving Kids for hours on TV and mobile, because we want to do our staff it makes them unhappy as nothing make kids happy is when they play ,and they interact with people,especially their parents
We are stressed ,rushing and sometimes we can’t bare our children our behavior just because we can’t take it anymore
Guess what!
When we do have positive interaction with our children not only makes our children happy but it makes us too
What to do then?
Like any difficult job we need not only to read and take courses but we need training
If you don’t play sports and I ask to go the gym and play for an hour continuously , will you be able to do it
Of course not you. can’t, it will be too hard for you
But if I ask you to go and play for 5 minutes a day and then next day 10 minutes and next day 15. …after few months will you be to play for an hour
Because you trained your muscles
And same training is needed for our brain
Our attitude,behavior towards our children is coming from our brain
Our behavior is a result of our thinking of what s going inside our mind and not due to children behavior
This what I help in Hand in Hand Parenting workshop to train you to be the best parent you can be
I help you to be a calm parent without controlling your temper in fact I help you to get out your stress and anger
All of you know that we need to consider our children emotions what about parents don’t their emotions need to be considered too, supported , understood ,listen without being judged!
Not only that all mothers who attended with me the workshop before , requested from me continuation that why, I will offer
Circle of Support
to help them to be on track and to continuously feel supported and understood
ARE YOU READY TO GO WITH ME IN THE JOURNEY
If you are click on this link and be with us in the next round can’t wait to have you in our journey
http://daliaalam.com/public-workshop/hand-in-hand-parenting-classes-new-cairo/
Meanwhile I am sending you this roses
till I see you Insha Allah
Dalia Abu Alam
A dream for a better EGYPT but cant make it without you