Working mothers feel guilty to leave their children and some of them find out when their children have grown and they missed spending time with them
Stay home mothers feel that their life is ruined because of their children , some of them even regret being mothers
The problem is not in your children nor in working /staying at home
The issue is to be aware of your problem.
Sometimes you are not conscious and we react by either blaming our children thinking that they are the reason of our unhappiness , trying to compensate them for not spending time with them by spending money on them
How to get out of the dailama,how to stop feeling guilty,how not to feel victim of our children
1- Admit this feeling and express it out instead of hide it till we blew up
2- Know what makes you happy and do it , you can’t make your children happy unless you feel satisfied
3- Ask yourself what you wish your relationship with your children be when you grew up and plan accordingly starting today
We cannot expect our children to be close to us when we grew up if we didn’t bond with them when they are young
In my 10 minutes parenting tools workshop I offer simple tips that help you to be conscious ,thinking mother instead of being passive stressed mother
Parenting is not only how to treat children positively it is how parent improve their parenting skills too